The things you can read in magazines and online around Valentines day are full of Valentine’s day ideas.

Often what you read will be something like surprise your valentine with creativity, humor, and be very interesting. And to do this you must plan it all out.

When really many of you just want tips on a good valentine’s present to pick for that special someone and What would you need to do as part of the gift.

Well without further ado here we go…

…With Gift tips for the Women to give a Man:

• Hi tech gadgets and toys
• Car accessories
• Computer parts
• A Classy or cool Watch
• Clothes
• Cologne
  
• Intimate Bedroom Gifts

Hi tech gadgets and toys like:
iPods, cellphone, Mp3 Players, GPS, Pocket PC, Handheld Organizer

Car accessories
Ladies only get car stuff for a man who is passionate about his car or car hobby. Be sure you know what your valentine man likes.

Computer parts
Same as the man who likes Hi-tech gadgets many as high as 80 percent of the men love computers and related stuff like games. Buy him his favorite pc or mac game or computer upgrades parts for a gift.

Clothing
Many a man has a special preference when it comes to clothes. Forget the ties and socks, get your man a stylish T-shirt or Jeans or whatever fits his personality and style. His idea of his image and style not yours.

Cologne
If your man really digs or uses aftershave and cologne then giving Cologne as a gift might be a good idea. Unless he gets that as a gift all the time.

Gift giving tips for Men to Women:

• Romantic love letter or poem
• Flowers bouquet
• Romantic Dinner
• iPod filled with her favorite songs
• Music Cd
• Bath Products
• Spa massage package
• Lingerie
• Something Sexy For The Bedroom
• Jewelry

Romantic love letter or poem
Write personalized love letter or poem …not for you huh well…

Still No shortcuts here but if you can’t spend some time thinking of a few words that are from deep in your heart and soul for more than 2 lines then at least add some flair to it by…..having the letter presented in a unique way.

Have the letter put on fancy paper and placed inside a decorative piece of glass that has fragrance added to it.

And if you just can’t think of anything to write other than I love you then maybe you can make her a photo slideshow in those digital frames they sell now. Or how about a Video set to romantic music you both share as a couple.

Flower Bouquet
Flowers that are garnished with a variety of tiny things like certificates for a message from you or a spa. Have a vase filled with candy instead of a plain vase. Add a card, chocolates or jewelry.

It has been said that flowers and chocolates are all too common a gift and makes you ever so predictable. So twist it up a bit add some unique stuff. But no matter what if you have put love and care into this she will love the attention from you.

Romantic Dinner
Plan a romantic evening by having a dinner with your lady either at a restaurant, catered or dare I say made by You. What you can’t cook?

Then hire a chef for the meal. Or…restaurant hop and eat a little here and there with the dessert ending at another restaurant or maybe where you first met. Take a limo if you can.

CD
A CD custom made with a mix of songs that are your special songs as a couple. Or really turn it on with a new MP3 player with photo and video capabilities and your special couple songs.

Lingerie
Of course only if you are close with your valentine. Buy her something that she will love and where more than once and more than on Valentines.

And don’t give just lingerie as it might seem like an invitation for sex. Which can backfire as she will be thinking all you have in mind is SEX.

Word of caution…You must know her body shape and size and buy something that won’t offend you both.

Something Sexy For The Bedroom
Something Sexy For The Bedroom like one that is meant for couples who want seductive evenings
Candles, Flavored Massage oil, Massager, Bubbles, Feather

Jewelry
Buy her something different. Something engraved like a ring that is titanium with her birthstone.

Best gift idea might be to combine all from the above such as:

1. a Love Letter in a bottle
2. Roses or her favorite Cut Flower
3. Romantic dinner with Champagne or Wine

Remember to use your creativity.

A good example is give her strawberries dipped in chocolate rather than just a heart shaped box of chocolates.

Okay, enough for the gifts. How about some ideas for Valentine’s Day?

How to keep a Valentine’s date interesting?

Here are some ideas for you to start one:

Prepare a romantic meal yourself or hire a chef.

Plan activities full of romance like: Start from dinner to maybe even a dance, then end the day with a wonderful love filled evening and nightcap at home. But keep em guessing as to what is next.

Make it so special like you see in some movies. Yes the movies since real life seems to zip by without much adventure. Add some adventure.

Choose from:

• A Romantic picnic
• The Beach
• A Boat or a Short cruise
• A chartered Plane that gives a scenic tour
• Horse and buggy Ride
• Train Ride
• Hot Air balloon
• Helicopter Ride
• A Hotel stay Out of Town with a Massage package for two

A few pointers for the man

Make A Show of Effort
Many woman do in fact appreciate the effort that you put into making Valentines a special day.

If you just spend a bundle on a bouquet or gift basket and a box of candy and say here Happy Valentine’s Day she is likely to suspect you have not put much time or thought into this romantic gesture.

And a quick stop at the convenience store at the last moment definitely is a deal buster.
The Time you spend is more important than the total bill.

Pamper Her
Most women would just love to be pampered.

Some pamper your valentine ideas:

• Bubble Bath for Two complete with Candles and Champagne
• Bottle of Massage oil and give her a massage

Remember that however you pamper her it should be done for her enjoyment alone.  It should not be used solely as a way to get her warmed up for sex.

Do it with the intention of just making her feel good and you never know what might happen next anyway.  But Women can sense when they are being primed for sex, and when it is a genuine act of loving kindness.

With woman an important thing is to listen to her and find out what she really does like.
Then plan an evening that really Surprises her with her favorites instead of the typical Valentines roses, chocolates, and stuffed bear.

There you go gifts to get and ideas to go with them. But above all have fun and don’t be closed up try new things that you and your Valentine both might enjoy.

And never forget that for your relationship to last you must remember to celebrate your love throughout the year. If you truly want it to last forever.

Enjoy your Valentine’s day and the Gifts that you give and get.

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